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Guidelines for choosing a wedding dress that will compliment your figure

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

• A-line Wedding Dresses – A-line silhouette make the most of your curves as well as camouflages full hips and draw attention to your upper body.

Featured Gown: Maggie Sottero

• Ball Gown Wedding Dresses – Enhances small waistlines, while hiding those last ten pounds you’ve wanted to lose from your butt or thighs.

Featured Gown: Alfred Angelo

• Trumpet and Mermaid Wedding Dresses – Accentuates sexy figures, showing off curves throughout the body.

Featured Gown: Jim Hjelm

Helpful tips that will ensure a successful reception

Thursday, March 25th, 2010

•Delegate wedding duties to responsible individuals who will adhere to deadlines as the last thing a bride should be concerned about on her wedding day is tracking down her cake or centerpieces.

•Be mindful of time. The wedding day can be the most hectic day and sure things will happen that may cause delays however drastic time set backs will impact the flow of the reception as most venues are on a 4-hour time frame.

•Compose a timeline in order to ensure that the important moments (i.e. father daughter / mother son dance, bouquet / garter toss) are executed thus eliminating the ‘should have’, ‘could have’, and ‘would have’ feelings.

•If you do not plan to have a wedding consultant, at least consort with one to review your contracts to ensure that the different wedding vendors (i.e. bartenders, photographer, DJ etc.) are in order to ascertain that the vendors perform the necessary services (i.e. are contracted for the right time, meet the needs for you event and to make sure that there are not any details in the contract that you may have missed).

Questions to Ask Your Wedding Videographer

Wednesday, March 24th, 2010

I was reading an article on the other day entitiled What to Ask Your Wedding Videographer and thought it would be helpful for me to share with you as this is my first blog post to

Here’s one movie you’re bound to watch over and over again―get it right and you’ll love every single viewing.

1. What is your video style―cinematic or documentary?

If you want the videographer to create an artistic movie of the wedding, you will want someone who can apply feature-film techniques. If you want a traditional video chronicling the day from start to finish, go with someone who is skilled in shooting in a documentary style. Don’t expect a professional who makes traditional wedding videos to put together a cinematic film.

2. What is your storytelling approach?

Make sure you and the videographer are on the same page about how you want the day documented. Ask to see samples of his or her recent work.

3. What type of coverage do you offer?

The number of hours a videographer will shoot and the film he or she will use vary by vendor. Many pros offer a nice variety of options. Pick one that works best for the wedding’s schedule, style, and budget. Once you select the package, the coverage should be detailed in the contract.

4. What type of video or film format do you use?

Most videographers today shoot on digital film and produce DVDs (as opposed to VHS tapes) that offer extremely sharp images and last for more than 30 years. Some shoot on Super 8 (eight-millimeter) film, or digital film that gives the same nostalgic, vintage effect as Super 8 but is not as expensive.

5. How will the audio (sound) be handled?

You won’t want an annoying microphone hanging over you or your guests throughout the day. Nowadays, most quality video cameras feature microphones that pick up clear sound. If a videographer wants to record the best audio during the vows, he or she will place a wireless mic on the officiant or groom― never on the bride, as it might affect the wedding dress.

6. What types of cameras/lighting will you use?

Hire a professional who owns the most advanced and modern equipment to ensure the best picture quality. The latest video cameras are more light-sensitive, so the videographer doesn’t have to bring in harsh, glaring, or obtrusive lighting.

7. How many other weddings will you be shooting on my wedding day?

You will want to know that you’ll have the videographer’s full attention and time. If the person is overbooked, he or she may rush through your event. Be sure your wedding doesn’t overlap with another.

8. Will you coordinate with my photographer?

It’s a good idea to have the videographer and photographer meet, even for just a few minutes before the ceremony, to collaborate on the video and photography coverage. You do not want them competing for shots, which can create an uneasy atmosphere.

9. What is your editing process?

Some videographers use an in-camera editing technique to cut costs. But this process, in which the person tries to shoot the raw footage as cleanly as possible to reduce editing time later, can produce a low-quality video. Wedding videos should be professionally edited postproduction, after the film negative is uploaded onto a computer. Once the film is on the computer, the videographer can edit on-screen. Pros usually take three hours to edit one hour of video footage.

10. Do you offer HD-ready video?

In the age of high-definition television, this is good to know. If you are investing in a quality wedding video, you’ll most likely want to receive the most up-to-date product, which offers the sharpest pictures and will be compatible with any high-tech entertainment system that you want to set up.

~Antisha is a wife, mother and wedding filmmaker,  Bluvision Wedding Films is based out of Kansas City and available for travel~

Saks Fifth Avenue: Bridal Trunk Shows

Wednesday, March 24th, 2010

Some exciting dates to note for brides with healthier budgets that are shopping for their dream dresses.

Saks Fifth Avenue’s bridal trunk shows make it easy to shop complete collections from the best designers in the business, so finding the perfect dress for your big day is a breeze. They’re taking place in New York City on the dates designated below. You need to call to make an appointment.

Saks Fifth Avenue Bridal Salon, 611 Fifth Avenue, fifth floor, New York (212-940-2269)

4-6, Kenneth Pool
11-13, Junko Yoshioka
18-20, Anna Maier Ulla-Maija
25-27, Jenny Packham

8-10, Marchesa
15-17, Anne Bowen
22-24, Monique Lhuillier
29-May 1, Selia Yang

6-8, Douglas Hannant
13-15, Angel Sanchez
20-22, Vera Wang

17-19, Carolina Herrera

15-17, Monique Lhuillier

Saks Fifth Avenue Bridal Salon, 9600 Wilshire Boulevard, Beverly Hills (310-887-5509)

4-6, Vera Wang
11-13, Melissa Sweet, Priscilla of Boston, and Platinum
18-20, Oscar de la Renta
25-27, Reem Acra

15-17, Romona Keveza
22-24, Douglas Hannant
29-May 1, Jenny Packham

6-8, Angel Sanchez
13-15, Anne Bowen

frazzled………….. to say the least

Friday, March 19th, 2010

So I am halfway there…… and I am feeling it.  Run down, ragged, stressed, and ready for this to be done.  I feel like I have planned just about enough details, and it is wearing on my patience.   Not just that, but my sobriety.   Right now I have about 90 days clean time…… which is awesome, but everyday is a battle.

As far as my 90 days go, I could not have accomplished it without God and the help of my awesome friends, and of course- Mr. Culberson.  (Mostly God though……. to stop using after a 14 year streak honestly requires a miracle)

Bands are slowly coming together, however I just found out that the one we were relying on for a good majority of our entertainment for the evening only has about an hour set list.  So it’s back to the drawing board to get yet another band to add to the nights festivities.  I need someone that can play for a good two-three hours.  Hopefully I can find that band soon, in my budget.

We do have three bands booked right now though, which is awesome………….  one of my favorites Mue Sephei (you can check them out @ ) they are going to do the ceremony music and some light reception music , Mr. Culbersons band- Dreams Scar Reality (check them out @ ) and our third band is a cover band made up of the guitar player & singer from Dreams Scar Reality, and a girl named Jessica on bass.  They are pretty cool too.  So it looks like one of my top priorities is finding another band.

Moving on…………….. I picked out some bad ass tuxes.  They are a Calvin Klein 2 button shadow striped with teal vests and ties and black shirts.  Shoes are black & white patent leather.  The great debate now is weather the guys want to rent the tuxes I picked out.  Or go out and  buy a pair of black dress pants & a black shirt, ditch the vests, and wear a turquoise tie.  Then wear a pair of zebra stripe slip on Vans.

Here’s the tux:

Granted they look slick, but I know the jackets & vets will be ditched right after the ceremony.  If we do rent tuxes, we will be renting them from the Men’s Wearhouse.  They are located all over the nation, your men can be fitted wherever it is convenient for them and pick up the tux in your wedding location.  They also have great deals like rent 5 get the grooms free.  Rentals include two shirts (in case guys sweat through one), suspenders, cuff links, ties & vests, and shoes.  Rentals also start as low as $49 and go up to $169.

Other stuff of randomness………………….

We started to register.  We’re going with Target & taking Mrs. N’s advice and going for Bed Bath & Beyond.  My dad & sister are also going in on a car for us as a wedding gift…… which is cool.  For the past year we have been a slave to car pools, public transports & taxis.  It will be nice to have our own set of wheels again.

I’ve made some other changes too- our guest list is ever growing.  We’re at about 110.  So the 80 invitations I had bought were just not going to cut it.  I decided to return them and go with printed post card invites from Vistaprint, and do all of my RSVP’s by phone or web to save on paper and postage.  Once I get them ordered I’ll put a sample up here to show the world.  They’re much cheaper- and postage is cheaper.  Then for out of town guests, all of our lodging, directions, maps, areas of interest, general stuff will be on our website.  (I am working on a wedding website right now…… more details on that to follow…… stay tuned)

Anyway………………. I have about ten minutes to get my stuff together before I have to run out the door.   Thanks for reading my rant……. and if you have any ideas of what you think we should write about- let us know in our comment section.  We’d love to know.  Feedback is always appreciated.

Wedding Trends to Lookout for in 2010

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Birdcage Veils
More and more brides are opting for this vintage headpiece, which provides them with dramatic glamour. Brides look Hollywood chic in them.

Featured Bride: Nicole Johnson

Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses
In 2010 the aisle will transform into a runway as bridesmaids strut in their mismatched dresses. 2010 brides will push the envelope by only choosing the color and allowing their bridesmaids to find their own dresses by the designer of their choice. Talk about taking off some pressure.

Featured Designer: Two Birds Bridesmaid

Featured Designer: Two Birds Bridesmaid

Differ Spin on the Standard Yearlong Engagement
Although the yearlong engagement is the amount of time required to plan every detail of the wedding, it is not mandatory. Couples are now planning quick nuptials i.e. taking a trip downtown to the Justice of the Peace or hoping on a plane and heading for paradise. Shorter engagements enable couples to ease the pressure of planning the perfect wedding as well as the opportunity to save money.
Featured Destination: St. Thomas, United States Virgin Islands

Retro glamour and other quirky surprises

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

This incredible weather (we finally got to see some sunshine in NYC) helps to inspire wedding ideas and here are some trends for 2010 that was kind enough to share with us.  So go plan and have fun figuring out your personal style and flair.


1. BLACK, WHITE & BALL GOWNS: From black-sashed dresses and ball gowns to tulle and high waists, the look of the season is all about Grace Kelly elegance, right down to the accessories: ladylike gloves and pearls. For the guys, traditional tuxes are back.

2. MAD MEN-INSPIRED BEAUTY: Channeling the likes of Betty Draper and Audrey Hepburn, brides will be opting for statement-making hairstyles, like bouffants, French twists, and even beehives, with chic cage veils. As for makeup, matte base, black eyeliner, and red lipstick complete the look.

3. RAT PACK COCKTAIL RECEPTIONS: Couples are skipping the sit-down dinner and going for supper club-style cocktail parties instead. Think: big-band music, heavy appetizers, and old-fashioned cocktails, like Manhattans, sidecars, and dirty martinis.

4. ART DECO COLORS: Black — paired with emerald green or ruby red — will give weddings a dramatic, sophisticated feel.

5. STATEMENT CAKES: Cupcakes will always be cute, but the big news right now is stately cakes, from towering layers to splashes of metallic details.


6. INTERACTIVE ELEMENTS: Blame it on Avatar, but the 3-D craze is also hitting the wedding scene with 3-D save-the-dates, menus and more. And, the interactive phenomenon doesn’t stop there. Guests can look forward to crossword puzzle-style save-the-dates, video announcements, and special performances.

7. GLEE-INSPIRED FIRST DANCES: Inspired by the hit show, Glee, couples are taking their first dance to a whole new level by opting for a “mash-up” (or medley) of songs instead of a single one.

8. OVER-THE-TOP WEDDING EXITS: Forget the sparklers, confetti canons and hot air balloon sendoffs will be all the rage.

9. STYLE SURPRISES: A pair of high-top sneakers peeking out from under his tux! A glimpse of a pink petticoat under the hemline of her dress! Pairing bright-green socks for the groom and bright-green shoes for the bride! Couples are really showing their individuality, underneath it all.

10. THE ANTI BRIDE: The ’80s are back in a big way, and weddings are not immune. Fingerless gloves, neon graffiti, and ’80s prom music will be huge at fashion-forward receptions and after-parties.

For the First Time…

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

As some of us know, and others are soon to find out, one of the most exciting parts of your wedding night, is being introduced into your reception.  According to our video, I was extremely excited, even fist pumping and giving out high fives.  Having attended many weddings, I have seen couples get introduced to your “typical” introduction songs, but I have also been privy to some interesting choices.  This sparked my interest in researching some of the bizarre musical choices to be introduced to.  Below is a list of songs in order from “normal” to completely out of this world bizarro.

It’s a Beautiful Day (U2)- no brainer, can’t go wrong here

Another one Bites the Dust (Queen)- a little obvious

Are you Gonna be my Girl (Jet)- weird as she already said yes

Keep ’em Separated (Offspring)- uh hello???

Crazy Train (OZZY)- Ozzy is nuts, but he got it right with this one

Two Step (Dave Matthews Band)- great lyrics but a bit obscure

I want to Grow Old with you (Adam Sandler)- blah blah

Final Countdown (Europe)- for the 80’s hair lover…great one

I used to Love her (GNR)- this could be proof later on

Highway to Hell (ACDC)- does it get any better

Bittersweet Symphony (The Verve)- her side might not appreciate

Aint that a kick in the Head (Dean Martin)- really???

Stranglehold (Ted Nuggent)- all I have to say is NRA

Love Walks In (Van Halen)- I walked down the aisle to this one

Crazy Little Thing Called Love (Queen)- can’t go wrong with Queen

Thriller (Michael Jackson)- maybe if you do the entire routine???

I’m too Sexy (Right Said Fred)-  I only wish that one of my friends had the balls to walk into this song.  This has to be a bad joke.  The band or DJ that allowed this should have any license to officiate revoked.

These are just some of the interesting songs that I found in my research.  There are a number of websites dedicated to wedding music.  From intro songs, to ceremony songs, to father/daughter dances, to mother/son dances.  Please stay tuned for some more blogs surrounding wedding music.

Some Reception Thoughts

Monday, March 15th, 2010

This article is always very popular with couples, I’m reposting to get ideas for your reception.

We are always asked about ideas for receptions. We have answered lots of questions from brides who wonder what to do. Feel free to stop in and ask the WedPlanLady for answers to your questions.  Here are some of the questions we are asked.

How can I handle guests who respond to the invitation and state on the reply card that the number planning to attend is larger than the number invited?

If you truly can’t handle the additional guests, we suggest that you turn to your maid of honor or a tactful bridesmaid. Ask her to call the guests and explain that the bride would love to extend her guest list, but unfortunately it is impossible. The reason? Budget concerns or space already filled. If the person is offended – and some will be – they are not true friends. After all, they were the ones who have overstepped the etiquette boundaries. Often, the “extras” are uninvited children. To avoid this situation, the reception card should read, “adults only reception”. Emotions are involved in these situations; so don’t get upset if people sometimes act rudely.

Everyone seems to have an opinion about what I should and shouldn’t do at my wedding. How can I please so many different people?

We suggest that you do not try to impress anyone. Long after the event is history, it will be your creativity and warmth that are remembered, not the suggestions that you did not follow. Have pots of your favorite flowers as table centerpieces, serve local specialties, label tables with your favorite places or hobbies, assign singles to a partner, place nibbles at strategic places, and be generous with warm greetings. The success of your reception depends on efforts to create warm hospitality.

Vera P. Fernandes
Owner, Certified Wedding Specialist
Weddings Simply Unique, LLC

Enter the My Wedding Binder Contest!!

Monday, March 15th, 2010

Contest has ended!

WINNER: Nanette Olson (free membership and gift basket)

RUNNER UP: Sarah D (free membership)

Congratulations to our winners.  Thank you for participating and stay tuned for more contests and giveaways to come!!

One lucky winner will win a basket full of bridal goodies and a FREE membership to My Wedding Binder, our online wedding organizer.  The contents of the basket are as follows: Victoria Secret Love Spell body splash; Victoria Secret Love Spell body lotion; set of 4 purple wild hydrangea candlesticks; Neutro Revitalizing rose scented bath salts; 2×3 inch wedding picture frame; set of 4 lucite “love” coasters; Origins bath soap (3) in Spearmint & Lemon, Orange & Cardamom, Lime & Geranium; set of 6 tealight aromatherapy candles with glass holder; strawberry sangria mini bath pearls; wedding cake decorative candle; silver and crystal heart charm bracelet with toggle clasp; Comfort Fit fuzzy stretchable slipper socks; and a FREE membership to My Wedding Binder.

One runner up will receive a FREE membership to My Wedding Binder to help plan your special day!!

My Wedding Binder is a modern online virtual wedding binder that you will never need to carry around with you. All of your wedding planning needs can be fulfilled using our advanced wedding planning online tools!

How to enter:  To enter the MWB contest giveaway, all entrants must leave a comment on this blog page.  One comment per person will be counted, however entrants can submit additional entries by becoming a fan of My Wedding Binder on facebook or by following My Wedding Binder on Twitter.  The MWB contest will start at 12:00AM EST on March 16th and end at 12:00AM EST on March 18th.  The winner will be announced at the conclusion of the contest.  Offer void where prohibited.  Please see the terms below.


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