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frazzled………….. to say the least

Friday, March 19th, 2010

So I am halfway there…… and I am feeling it.  Run down, ragged, stressed, and ready for this to be done.  I feel like I have planned just about enough details, and it is wearing on my patience.   Not just that, but my sobriety.   Right now I have about 90 days clean time…… which is awesome, but everyday is a battle.

As far as my 90 days go, I could not have accomplished it without God and the help of my awesome friends, and of course- Mr. Culberson.  (Mostly God though……. to stop using after a 14 year streak honestly requires a miracle)

Bands are slowly coming together, however I just found out that the one we were relying on for a good majority of our entertainment for the evening only has about an hour set list.  So it’s back to the drawing board to get yet another band to add to the nights festivities.  I need someone that can play for a good two-three hours.  Hopefully I can find that band soon, in my budget.

We do have three bands booked right now though, which is awesome………….  one of my favorites Mue Sephei (you can check them out @  http://www.myspace.com/muesephei ) they are going to do the ceremony music and some light reception music , Mr. Culbersons band- Dreams Scar Reality (check them out @  http://www.myspace.com/dreamsscarreality ) and our third band is a cover band made up of the guitar player & singer from Dreams Scar Reality, and a girl named Jessica on bass.  They are pretty cool too.  So it looks like one of my top priorities is finding another band.

Moving on…………….. I picked out some bad ass tuxes.  They are a Calvin Klein 2 button shadow striped with teal vests and ties and black shirts.  Shoes are black & white patent leather.  The great debate now is weather the guys want to rent the tuxes I picked out.  Or go out and  buy a pair of black dress pants & a black shirt, ditch the vests, and wear a turquoise tie.  Then wear a pair of zebra stripe slip on Vans.

Here’s the tux:


Granted they look slick, but I know the jackets & vets will be ditched right after the ceremony.  If we do rent tuxes, we will be renting them from the Men’s Wearhouse.  They are located all over the nation, your men can be fitted wherever it is convenient for them and pick up the tux in your wedding location.  They also have great deals like rent 5 get the grooms free.  Rentals include two shirts (in case guys sweat through one), suspenders, cuff links, ties & vests, and shoes.  Rentals also start as low as $49 and go up to $169.

Other stuff of randomness………………….

We started to register.  We’re going with Target & taking Mrs. N’s advice and going for Bed Bath & Beyond.  My dad & sister are also going in on a car for us as a wedding gift…… which is cool.  For the past year we have been a slave to car pools, public transports & taxis.  It will be nice to have our own set of wheels again.

I’ve made some other changes too- our guest list is ever growing.  We’re at about 110.  So the 80 invitations I had bought were just not going to cut it.  I decided to return them and go with printed post card invites from Vistaprint, and do all of my RSVP’s by phone or web to save on paper and postage.  Once I get them ordered I’ll put a sample up here to show the world.  They’re much cheaper- and postage is cheaper.  Then for out of town guests, all of our lodging, directions, maps, areas of interest, general stuff will be on our website.  (I am working on a wedding website right now…… more details on that to follow…… stay tuned)

Anyway………………. I have about ten minutes to get my stuff together before I have to run out the door.   Thanks for reading my rant……. and if you have any ideas of what you think we should write about- let us know in our comment section.  We’d love to know.  Feedback is always appreciated.


The beat goes on……. and this time I have new shoes to dance in

Friday, February 26th, 2010

All day long I have been rotating between two jobs, cleaning the kitchen and doing dishes…………. and looking for the perfect reasonably priced $200-ish wedding venue.  I think I just may have found it.  I have called galleries, campgrounds, VFW, UAW & K of C Halls……………  e-mailed private homes, ski lodges, recording studios………….. and relief seems to be coming in the form of a small American Legion Hall in town.   I think I’ll confirm the date tomorrow and get it set in stone.

As far as bands go, they seem to be coming together.  We have one already lined up.  Super excited.  This band is one of my favorite local bands.  I wear their t-shirt on a regular basis and see them at every opportunity.  More details on that to follow……… I’ll let the suspense build a little bit.  We are still looking for a good cover band that we can dance all night to.  If you are in the Traverse City, MI area and know of one, give me a shout.  I’d love to check them out.

Other wedding related nonsense…………..

I think I found my shoes.  At least I ordered my shoes.  Hopefully they will fit and everything will be good, so I won’t have to return them.  Also, I had a coupon…………. so I saved $8!  Here’s the shoes……

It was a strong tie between the turquoise and a pair with buckles on the toes in zebra print……………. but the turquoise pulled through because they matched the invites and will match the tux vests.  (I’m getting matchy on this here occasion)

Good news, if I do have to return them I can return them in store.  I ordered them from famous Footwear http://www.famousfootwear.com/  I found my $8 off coupon on this great website- retail me not.  On-line coupon codes for over 50,000 stores.  All you have to do is search by store name.  Check it out, best of all, it’s free http://www.retailmenot.com/

Moving on to other great deals…………

I was on E-Bay the other day looking for a Russian veil, and I happened to find one, with feathers & flowers for cheap.   So I bid on it.  I was outbid, so I bid again.  I won!  I got my veil!  It is on its way right now from Brighton, MI.  I am so excited.  This veil is exactaly what I was looking for.  It had never been worn, and originally purchased for $125.  I won the auction at $22.  With out further ado………….. here are pics.  Glorious pics.

Russian blusher veil................. some think they're tacky & dated...... THEY ARE! That's why I love them <3

Close up of feathers & flowers

I went and did a little shopping today, at one of my favorite on-line printers, Vista Print.  I was able to pick up 100 save the date postcards, a big vynal banner, a 2 sided yard sign & stand, custom letterhead, custom notecards, a stamp with our name & address, 250 businesscards for Mike, magnets (large & even larger), and return address labels WITH shipping for under $40.

Here’s a peek at some of the stuff I was able to pick up……….. as long as you can pick out one of their pre-made designs to work with, they have a ton of free stuff.  Want to use your own design or have them custom make one for you?  They do that too for pretty cheap.  These were all one of their presets though, and in our colors.  I was happy.

vynal banner

Yard sign with stand

I have had them print business related stuff for me too, it always comes out nice.  Check them out.  http://www.vistaprint.com  Be sure to sign up for their e-mail news so you get all of the free news sent to your e-mail box.  They will send you all of the specials that you can’t always find on the website.  You can also find coupons on the coupon site listed above.

Other than that, still waiting to hear back on the hall.  The little art gallery that used to be a church ended up being out of our price range.  Still more reasonable than many places we’ve checked out, but at $70 an hour for the entire place we can’t swing the length of reception we want there.  So, the search continues.